For a while now, I've been sitting back observing behavior patterns, and while observing I saw how ppl take kindness as a weakness and silence as distance. When in reality, I've been finding little pieces that allowed me to put the big puzzle together. I've observed that there are still people in my life that need to removed due to being a wolf in Sheep's clothing. You've been disguising yourself as friend/family when your actions have been telling me everything I need to know, which is different from what you've been showing me.
My mentor shared with me something that I've been applying to my life. Every situation requires/deserves a separate response from your last. You cannot handle everything the same way. At the end of each lesson, you should be able to grow in your area of weakness. Not to mention experience being your greatest teacher.
I've noticed how folks will take strained relationships and use them as an advantage. I've noticed how longevity has been measured at a higher regard over loyalty and honesty. I've noticed how your overall perspective is measured by what others think. I notice how you believe you have the gift of gab, when its really you believing that persuasion is better than being humble/honest.
I notice how you keep seeing the same situation in your life-often reversing the roles of who is currently close to because you fail to learn the lesson.
Instead of stooping to your level of ignorance/immaturity, I'm going to pray for you. My Heavenly Father has shown/taught me that you cannot fight hate with hate, nor can you fight ignorance with ignorance. I pray that you're released from that negative/unhealthy mindset that you've grown accustomed to, that you seek relationships that strengthen, edify and build-with truth and not lies. I pray that you overcome your needy spirit with a more humble one. I pray that you become a better steward over your household, building and not tearing it down. That you seek to add and not divide. I pray that you seek to be better and not bitter. That you know when the enemy is using you and when he/she is sitting on your couch/eating at your table. I pray that you cease believing that numbers don't lie. Doesn't matter the amount of years that you've known a person, what truly matters is how often they are there for you w/o conditions. I pray that you see how growth is truly measured by your ability to see your hand/involvement in relationships that have been ended,mainly this one. I'm on a mission and unfortunately when your on a mission, you have to be careful to only pack the necessities, ensuring that you're not weighed down.
I believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason, with the intent to fulfill a purpose!
I am a #Believer This is a #newadventureSAMEjourney #FHL #iHss #YPMM
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